Any ASSHATS out there that think that cleaning or housework is women’s work; you’re an idiot. If your wife has been doing these tasks for you while you were working, then you should be ashamed of yourself. Marriage is a partnership that requires teamwork.
There are tasks that require more strength sometimes, but this doesn’t mean that task “X” is for men and task “Y” is for men. It simply means that part of the team needs to step up and help out to keep the team strong and performing at its maximum potential. I know that living here in the west you were probably taught the separation of duties, but you were taught wrong.
Now, if you have tried and tried to clean and it keeps turning into a big pile of poopy (which is probably impossible, but I know someone will probably claim it) then find something else to do. Do the dishes, laundry, finish those projects that have been on your list for years, and above all else be a father to your children.
You don’t have any excuses anymore raise your children the way they are supposed to be raised. If you don’t know how, Google it, find some old guy to tell you. Whatever you do, stop adding to the problem. We’ll get back to this.
To review, if you can’t support the family financially do it emotionally. Remain the center of your universe and above all else be calm. Be the rock, the solid place, and keep a positive attitude.
If you’re scared, don’t let your family know it. You are the one that the family looks to for strength, be strong.
I’ll be back to ramble soon.
C
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